Oral Histories

In the author's note of David Baldacci's Wish You Well he says "Oral histories are a dying art, which is sad indeed, for they show appropriate respect for the lives and experience for those who come before." The book is not his typical suspense novel but more a reflection of life in the early 40's in the harsh environment of the Virginia mountains. He "mined" his own family history for the story idea.

Obviously, for professional writer's family history can be a treasure trove of ideas but what about for the regular folk? Oral histories not only show respect for ancestors they ground younger generations giving them a sense of who they are. Society has become more mobile and it is not unusual for families to live thousands of miles apart seeing each other infrequently. Facebook and other online mechanisms have made staying in touch easier but it doesn't always make it easy to know where we came from, why our relatives act the way they do.

Not everyone has the means to investigate family history as they do on the show "Who Do You Think You Are". Every family does have the means to share stories of their lives. The history doesn't have to be about long ago relatives, although those would be great, your life and your parents lives can be the starting point for your children. The stories also don't have to be long and involved, snippets of life can be fun and easy to remember. Stories create a closeness.

Don't let oral histories die out, tell your family stories and listen to the stories of others in your family.